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  • Updated: 6 May 2006
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    Update on My Mom

    My mom is now in a nursing home getting the Physical Therapy she so desperately needs.  It is a Christian one so they have Church Services everyday.  Devotionals in the morning and in special weeks (like this one) they have an afternoon service.  I went to this with my dad today.

    It was ok.  Mom doesn't like being in a nursing home, but just by looking at her you can see that she is better than she was before.  She is doing a lot of things for herself that she would never even have attempted before.  Hopefully, dad won't let her revert when she comes home in about 20 days.

    My ex has deleted his blog so it is no good going to look at it on www.newlins.com.  However, I think he has just posted it somewhere else so that I can't read it and know anymore about the new woman in his life.  He hinted that she was writing a blog so he may have joined her instead of the other way around.  I think he also doesn't like hearing the truth from me about what has happened between us and that forgiveness is the key to moving on in our lives.

    Forgiveness has given me a new perspective of our lives together.  Both of us did things wrong in the marriage and had either one of us been willing to compromise and talk about the problems they could have been sorted out.  I was willing, he was not.  So that is what happened.  No blame can be attached to either one of us.  We were both in the wrong.

    I hope he reads this a learns a few things about everything.

    A visitor made this comment,
    Why do you think that the new woman in his life would want to tell the world about their friendship. Maybe you should contact her directly and find out that she has not been nasty about you as it is not in her nature.
    Also I do not believe in being bitter as you have managed to have a 25 year mariage with him.

    jane

    comment added :: 6th April 2005, 08:45 GMT-06
    Oº°*T®ÅGÎÇ*°ºO made this comment,
    your story brings me to tears,..I truly feel for you,..I'm soo glad to see you're coping though, its hard to get through it but I'm proud of you,...

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